
However, a simple gesture like baking a cake for your spouse or writing an austere letter or just a delightful wish in the morning is enough to nurture love. Of course, all of us cannot be bards making surprise visits to a lover’s house through windows was left long behind in Shakespearean dramas. The eloquent way that the great poet Kalidas employed to convey ardent feelings through a forlorn character in Megadhuta brings out the paramount spirit of love. Your locks in plumes, your face in moonlight clear,Īh, jealous! But the whole sweet image is not here.” Your eyebrows in the ripple’s dancing lines, “I see your limbs in graceful creeping vines, When destiny did not favour and lives had to be lived apart, those heart-melting last letters were nothing but harbingers of purity in love. We are rapidly losing emotions today we don’t care for ourselves nor do we care for another soul. Days when the first kiss would change two lives forever are long gone. Pouring out your heart in a letter, reading the reply myriad times used to be joys of the good old days of romance. There might be fervent lovers out there, but I can assure that they are so few!

You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don’t know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have.” Only characters in books such as ‘The Notebook’ utter something as wonderful as these lines. “You are the answer to every prayer I’ve offered. They relish the fragrance of red roses, the aroma of chocolates dancing under the moon to the tunes of soft music, they like holding hands and walk along peacefully on a beach, sharing a steamy cup of coffee…huh oh… However, even when ‘romance’ has been redefined and made less emotional, some young hearts in love tend to be swept off the feet by a prince charming.

We either build a wall to preclude anyone from entering our hearts or gulp down our bonafide feelings just to present a stronger outlook to the society. As we girls are stereotyped to be mushy and overwhelmingly sentimental (something the boys hate about us!), we move away from those old fashioned ways of expressing affection. I was of a different mindset back then and found nothing weird in writing poems for someone you love the most. “Come on, it’s the 21st century and you are writing letters!” was the usual retort from most of the pals in our group. I could not fathom then, but now I understand why she was teased for this idea. Sometime ago, a friend of mine wished to pen amorous love letters for her dearest.
